her of salvation so far as in him lies. Now, what a fearful thing is it to be an instrument to draw another to hell!6 Fourth, adultery destroys trust like few other sins. ‘dalliance destroys trust,’ writes Neff. ‘Before adultery comes the marriage.… Short of baptismal promises, the marriage vows are the most comprehensive vows a Christian can make. When the dike is breached by adultery, spouse and children can drown in the tide of pain. And the ripples and eddies of hurt reach far beyond the immediate
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